Don’t let the sun go down on me
Posted in Bible Study, Christianity on August 31st, 2006 2 Comments »
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“In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry
Ephesians 4:26
Righteous anger is allowed in the Bible. Jesus himself became angry with the money changers in the temple, and he dealt with the situation. Paul also allows for righteous anger, but his advice is sound. Do not let the sun go down on your anger.
But two questions emerge:
- How do we recognise righteous anger?
- How do we “not let the sun go down on our anger”?
Anger is an emotional response, and it is an emotional response to one thing in particular. When we become angry it is because we have a goal that has been blocked.
If I want to write a document and I use a Windows based computer, it may crash on me. The document is lost, my goal has been blocked and I become angry.
If I wish to go somewhere and someone stands in my way, or I get stuck in traffic in my car or am otherwise held up, then my goal has been blocked and I become angry.
Not all goals are so evident, but anger is always an emotional response to a blocked goal. If I am engaged in argument, and I am doing so because I want to appear intelligent and thoughtful, and if my argument is then demolished by someone else, then my emotional response may be anger – because my goal to appear intelligent and thoughtful is blocked.
So if anger is always a response to a blocked goal, we have the tools we need to discern righteous anger. We must ask, what is our goal?
Jesus’ goal was the glory of God, and that goal was blocked by the desecration in the temple as priets and moneychangers enriched themselves at the expense of those who came to worship. Thus he was angry, but his anger was righteous. He was zealous for the glory of God.
We can be angry with the same kinds of things in the modern Church. When I received a letter from an American TV evangelist offering to sell me “anointed prayer cloths” over which the evangelist had personally prayed, I was angry. I was angry because the gospel of grace was being turned to a means to line the pockets of a charlatan, and because people would be truned away from God by such things.
Not all my angry responses are so noble, but this is our test for righteous anger. If anger is righteous, let us be angry. If our goal is just wrong, then let us fix the goal instead.
But then how do we deal with these issues? Sometimes we cannot literally resolve an issue in one day. However, Paul’s words tell us that we must take the initiative. We must deal with our anger quickly, and not let it fester.
That is an easy thing to say, but a hard thing to do. But do it we must, or it will be us who suffer.
If someone drives aggressively around us on the roads and we are angry, do we think our anger affects the other party? No, it is us (and perhaps our own driving) that suffers. Don’t hold on to anger. Deal with it, forgive and move on.
Like anything that is difficult in life, practice makes perfect.